cultivating me

me being me and making my way through life one day, one book, and one recipe at a time

Teenagers!…

I’ll be the first to admit that teenagers offer their own special challenges but for the most part, I think they get a bad rap.  My son turns 13 this coming weekend and each day this week I have been gifting him 13 of things.  Nothing too fancy but just fun things to have some [...]

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Wed, October 8 2008 » kids, parenting » 3 Comments

Happy Birthday Little Monkey

I wonder how much longer I’ll be able to call you that before you start to complain that you aren’t so little anymore?  You’re not you know – you are not so little any more Enrique -  you are getting so big.  I find it hard to believe that you are nine years old today.  [...]

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Sat, September 27 2008 » from the heart, kids, parenting » No Comments

my way isn’t the only way

Not only am I learning to let go but I am also still learning to let my kids do things their own way. Today I had the perfect opportunity to practice.
Last year, my daughter asked me if she could paint her room. Since I believe kids have very few spaces that are unregulated and [...]

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Fri, August 15 2008 » kids, parenting » 5 Comments

connecting the dots

The strangest thing happened to me today. Oprah would have called it an “A – ha! Moment”
My daughter is 14 and starting High School this year. I don’t want to talk about – I’d like to live in Denial just a tad bit longer mmkay?
We are still undecided about whether or not she [...]

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Tue, August 12 2008 » kids, parenting » 3 Comments

still learning to share

I did something today that ended up being much harder for me than I thought it would be. The idea came to me on my way to pick up the little guy from school and it seemed so simple then – it made sense even and so i told myself that when the the [...]

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Wed, May 7 2008 » kids, parenting » 1 Comment